notebooks

  • B6/A6 size is best – i don’t like anything larger than A5
  • white, off-white, or cream colored paper only. i respect recycled paper but i cannot fucking see
  • dotted/grid > blank/lined, but of course blank is good for drawing and lined for journals. i think dotted/grid is the most versatile though.
    • 5mm grids are the best.
      • if it’s smaller, i’d like it to be VERY SMALL like small enough that you can’t possibly fit a line of words on a row of squares.
      • my least favorite are the 3~4.something mm grids, because they’re a sucky in-between.
  • ~~I DO NOT LIKE THIN PAPER i do not like you tomoe river S.~~
    • update 2/12/26: i’m okay now with tomoe river S.
  • not a huge fan of hardcover notebooks, HATE spiral notebooks. softcover or paperback is best!
  • i don’t like when the inner pages already have decorations in them. LET ME DO IT MYSELF,
  • i don’t like vertical notepads, even though they’re supposed to be good for me…
  • OPEN FLAT. if you don’t open flat you might as well not exist.

pens

  • thinner nib always preferred!
  • dark/desaturated colors preferred for longform writing, which is my usual writing
  • ❌ brush pens → i’m left-handed and don’t write with “proper form”, so i find calligraphy difficult
  • ❌ tripod grip

highlighters

  • pastel colors, no neon please
  • nothing too light that requires a billion strokes to be seen. my goodness…

pencils

  • i’m a mechanical pencil girly
  • B > H
  • i have trouble with thick croquis-types

stickers

  • i prefer small stickers to big ones. i don’t have many surfaces on which i’d like to stick big stickers, and when i do i’m extremely choosy about it!
  • i generally always like flowers, cute animals, day to day items like fruits and stationery and books, etc.
  • i do not like stickers that have puns
  • i do not like stickers that are just a slightly well-dressed thin girl
  • nothing too in the realm of “kawaii”, or white scrapbook mom.
  • ❌ EMBOSSED, please god
  • ❌ stickers i have to cut myself

washi

  • nothing too in the realm of “kawaii”, or white scrapbook mom.
  • normal size, nothing too narrow or wide
  • tearable with fingers. what are we doing otherwise.
  • i actually don’t know how to describe the kinds of washis i like. best not to attempt

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